A place to land

A community for shadow alchemy and existential kink

INTRODUCING

INTRODUCING

by the Shadow Alchemy Collective

Again and again you have asked for community and a sense of place to do this work. 

Because it's painful to try to integrate this work when nobody around you understands. 

It's not that you need more knowledge or understanding - it's about the relief of connecting with people who feel the truth.

Being witnessed and witnessing others. 

Being held in radical approval. 

This is how you live it.

It's a field.

This is not a course or coaching.

Dominion is not a program to complete...
there's no curriculum.
It is not a container designed to fix you or move you toward an outcome. 

The arc is the arc of real life. 

Dominion is a field.

A relational space devoted to Shadow Alchemy and Existential Kink as lived experience.

It's about touching other people... not consuming content.

You share what's alive for you in the moment.
You are witnessed.
You witness others.

Nothing needs to be optimized or improved before it can be held.
Nothing needs to be explained away.

This is a place for the work you're already doing to ground itself...
Through the field of radical apporoval and through being in relationship with others. 

What happens inside

Bring what's alive right now.

... Not what you have already processed
... Not what sounds coherent or makes sense
... Not what you think you should be working on.

Join Dominion if you're ready to share without performance.
This is a space to be met without judgement, without being managed or fixed.
You give and receive reflection. 

There is room for desire, resistance, ambivalence, truth...
...for clarity and confusion...
...for rage, sadness and vigorous love...
For that which doesn’t resolve quickly and your fleeting fancies.

The field is held energetically and through live calls with our phenomenal facilitators.
Each call has a different feel and we hold the program as a team...
And the ongoing thread is that of RADICAL APPROVAL...

for you and for your whole self. 

Sometimes the work is quiet, sometimes the calls are chill. 
Sometimes it’s charged and big feelings move through us. 

Do not come here looking for entertainment. We aren't interested in creating faux heat or performative moments of intensity.

We show up exactly as we are and face what's present in every moment and trust that Truth is interesting enough. 

In fact, truth is often the most sensational thing. 
... but not through force, not through effort... through opening and allowing. 

You’re not required to attend every call or show up in any particular way.
Recordings are available for most calls if you can’t be there live.

Dominion isn’t about extracting something from each session, we invite you to simply stay in contact with yourself and others as the work unfolds.

There is almost no 'content' to consume and there is not 'teaching' in this community. 

Meet the Shadow Alchemy Collective...

We are a crew of certified Shadow Alchemy and Existential Kink Coaches who have worked together for years leading a Mystery School and guiding people through shadow integration work and Existential Kink processes. 

You are welcome here

All beings are welcome here... 

AND, this container is being held from a place of trusting that you already have some experience doing shadow work or existential kink on your own or with others... and are able to take care of yourself to some extent. 

This is not a "safe space" and we would never attempt to promise something so unrealistic and unattainable. 

This is a real space. 

It's a space where we welcome you exactly as you are... and there are times that you may get triggered.

Other people (and truth itself) do sometimes trigger us. 

My hope is that when you join, you make the commitment to yourself to take ownership for your own experience.

That is what DOMINION is... we gain dominion over ourselves through taking ownership and holding ourselves - to the best of our ability - in acceptance and approval.  

Whatever comes up, we are here for it. That is the continuous practice that this space asks of you.

And when you slip, we're here to hold it for you.

And my expectation is that if you can't handle it, then you will leave. 

This is a container with no obligation to stick around. You are welcome to come exactly as you are and leave anytime. 

You can expect...

Inside DOMINION you can expect to find some of the coolest people on planet earth... it's true...

If you've been in any of the other courses and programs offered by Lucy, Laila, Dani or Holly, you know this to be FACT.

You will find regular monthly calls at somewhat consistent times each month, an online forum to chat anytime (lightly moderated) and a genuine field of total unapologetic, unrestrained approval for absolutely everyone in the community and everything about them.

You will definitely NOT find... 

step-by-step instructions 

how-to anything 

courses or course materials

'content'

In fact we guarantee absolutely nothing and no results of any kind. 

This is the part where this whole thing becomes practically criminal.... 

The price.

Out of some insane and probably misguided desire to make sure that everyone and anyone who wants in on this has absolutely no excuse not to join... 

and because we want it to be such a no-brainer to stay in this community through life's changes... 

we've decided to make the price criminally low. 

Just $39/month.

Logistics & FAQ

Dominion officially opens February 20th, 2026.

The community has three main parts:

1. The Forum

The forum will be hosted in a Facebook Group. I know that some of us are resistant to using Meta - but after quite a bit of research, it's clear that Facebook is where we're most likely to have an active vibrant community forum... 

and I deeply want that for us. 

2. The Calls

There will be a few different types of calls each month, most of them will be hosted by our core group of Shadow Alchemy Collective, and we will have guest facilitators come in and host calls as well. 

You can look foward to...

> Somatics of EK with Holly

> Coffee Chat with Laila

> Unkink your Existential Kink with Dani

> Turn Ons (A.K.A. "Reflection Game Calls" and "Power Ups" - these calls were originally called Turn Ons and we're returning to the original name. They include Inside Outs, Hot Seats, and Intimacies.)

... and more...

These calls will be hosted at a variety of times to try to accommodate everyone's time zone.

3. Home Base

Your membership will be hosted in Kajabi. This is where you'll find the recordings to all of the calls. (Except Turn Ons, we don't record those) 

This is also where you'll be able to cancel your membership, etc. 

FAQ

If I come to a call, do I have to participate?

Absolutely not. You are welcome to listen, join in, get on the hot seat, keep your video off... it's entirely up to you. 

What if I don't have Facebook on my phone or don't want to use Facebook?

I just downloaded Facebook on my phone to be able to participate in a community that switched to a Facebook group and it's so much better than the dead inactive forum we had before! It's worth it.

I'm pretty new to EK and Shadow work... will this be a good fit for me?

This is a great environment to absorb and integrate. So much of the transmission happens by witnessing other people in their processes. In the meantime, if you need to learn more, listen to our podcast, Penetrate Radio. 

What if I live in Australia, Europe or Asia?

It is likely that you will not be able to make it to as many of the live calls. We will attempt to schedule them at a variety of times to accommodate your time zone. I can't make any promises but I will absolutely consider requests if you have time and day preferences. 

Will there be replays available?

All of the calls will be recorded and have replays available, with the exception of the Turn Ons. Those calls are not suitable to record and watch later. They are meant to be participated in and experienced in the moment. 

Can I cancel / what is the commitment?

You can cancel any time, there is no commitment. You will be able to cancel on your own behest in the Kajabi platform, or by emails lucy@remolinacoaching.com. No explanation required! 

If you have any questions that were not answered in the above section, please email me at Lucy@remolinacoaching.com

Dominion is a community for people who don't want to do shadow work and EK alone anymore.

You are welcome. Join today.

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